Jeremiah Eliot Moody Crompton
6/12/1990-5/29/2016
Jeremiah Crompton, son of Joseph and Carole (Moody) Crompton of Brattleboro, ended his own life early Sunday m
orning.
His death followed years of frustration, sorrow, rage, fear, boredom,
delusion and pain interspersed with times of brilliance and amazing
humor.
Jeremiah attended Morningsong School in Putney, Canal/Oak
Grove School, Neighborhood Schoolhouse, BAMS and BUHS. His gifts were
musical and literary and he was also a sensitive visual artist. His
unique voice was always evident in everything he created. He wrote good
songs from the age of 9 and enjoyed busking for money in his tween
years. School friends remember him as a witty class clown.
Diagnosed in 3rd grade with NonVerbal Learning Disorder, he was,
nevertheless, found ineligible for special education services. In high
school he was again tested and found to have Asperger’s Syndrome or High
Functioning Autism. Jeremiah never accepted this diagnosis and
consistently refused medical, therapeutic, social and vocational
assistance for the challenges he faced.
In withdrawal from
prescribed opiates after a boating accident in 2005, Jeremiah soon
became addicted to heroin. He struggled with the effects of this and
other dangerous drugs for the rest of his life.
His memory will
be cherished by his parents, his sisters Phoebe Crompton-Tidd of
Brattleboro and Willow Broaddus of Rochester, VT and his cousins, Ahdi
Pillar, Frances and Alex Elliot, Justin Thompson and Bryan, Rachel and
Katy Lane and his beloved niece and nephews: Lila Tadlock, Roclin Harris
and Parker Tidd. He also leaves many aunts and uncles: Nancy Crompton
of Brattleboro, Trisha Lane of Chula Vista, CA, Carrie Crompton and
George Elliott of Andover, CT, Cate Crompton and Jim Beers of
Newburyport, MA, and Sam Crompton and Charlotte Tabakin of Hadley, MA.
The family extends deepest thanks to all who helped Jeremiah, deepest
apologies to any he hurt, and deepest sympathy to all who will miss him.
A Celebration of Jeremiah’s life will be held at the Guilford
Community Church on Bee Barn Road in Guilford, at 11 am on Thursday,
June 2, 2016.
Donations in Jeremiah’s memory may be made to Families First, which
tried to help him manage his final days, and to the Neighborhood
Schoolhouse where Jeremiah spent his happiest years.
Let
Jeremiah’s life remind us that the “safety net” for those who suffer
from mental illness, especially those with a dual diagnosis needs
substantial weaving and mending.
- Joe Crompton, his father
8 comments:
Have a great week!
A kind and sensitively written obituary. It will help those who love Jeremiah as they begin to feel the future again.
A truly beautiful tribute. For a man who sounded creative to the core. Despite his difficulties.
How brave of the family to write such a beautiful and truthful obituary. May their words help others whose loved ones are going through this heartbreaking epidemic that takes too many young lives.
His father, Joe, wrote the obit. It's the most truthful, brave and love-filled tribute I've ever read. I'm grieving with the Cromptons and our whole community. I wish Jeremiah knew how well he was loved but I don't think it would have made a difference. He was in so much pain, such a tortured soul. We hope he's playing music with John Lennon, and is happy at last.
My deepest condolences to Joe, Carol and family for your loss, and to Jeremiah who tried his best to find his way.
Hi Laura,
How tragic. Jeremiah, another tortured soul who had so much talent and yet, a lot of underlying pain.
He obviously touched many. I extend my sympathies to his family. His father showed much bravery in being able to formulate the obituary.
Mental illness has a far-reaching ripple effect. More understanding and the eradication of the stigma surrounding mental health, is a hope I wish realised.
In peace, your friend,
Gary x
How heart-breaking. It took a lot of love for his father to write such a raw honest obituary. I hope Jeremiah is at peace now. Unfortunately, it will take a lot longer for those who loved him and his family to find peace. Such a sad story, and there are way too many others just like it happening every day.
Take care, kiddo.
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